So it was the last day of our college, in the sense our theory class. So it was the chemistry hour and our lecturer asked us to take out a pen and a piece of paper. She then asked us to list the top 10 priorities/things/people you value in your life, it could be a thing to which you're attached to or a plant or a person .... literally anything. She asked us to cover the answer and told us that even she wouldn't check it. She gave us 10 mins & trust me I had never seen my class so serious (LOL) like literally every one were thinking so hard. Then finally after 15 mins she asked if anyone wanted to share their list ...none of them came forward. Then she asked if all these people were in the list - parents, siblings, family, pet, bestfriend etc etc....then she fell silent for a minute and then she asked - " now tell me, how many of you have added your own name?" Guess what?! Just 2 out of 74 students had added their name. The whole class went like WOAHHHHHH!!! THIS WAS SOMETHING THAT SHOOK ME FROM INSIDE. She went on -" Students i know that thinking about yourself might sound selfish, but it's not. You need to put yourself in the first position if not the atleast in the third position. You can only take care of others if you take care of yourself. You can only believe others if you believe in yourself. You can only love others if you love yourself. Students so please atleast from now start thinking about yourself and love yourself. At this stage everythin in the world may seem to be flowery but there are the darkest faces out there. Don't trust each n every one. Life after this will be filled with so many hurdles.'' She further added - "Thank you for giving me the best two years in my teaching career. Thank you for making me laugh and I'm sorry if I've hurt you . I know I've been strict at times (teary eyed) But trust me I don't have any hatred for you in my heart. I might not remember your names in the future, as I usually remember the troublemakers. Thank you and all the best. Be sure you be happy in future with whatever job you take up. And remember your health comes first then the wealth." This one session had a huge impact on me where I actually realised a lot. I realised I really never thought about myself. Ofcourse she was a great lecturer . Most of them had their emo- moment and the girl beside me started crying to which my lecturer also Started crying. It was a session filled with emotions, realisation and a goodbye.