Toxic positivity or acceptance?
I think it's a very toxic positivity when people say "Never quit, never give up! never ever" I mean giving up is absolutely alright honey . In fact sometimes it's necessary that we give up. Focus on what you want to accomplish. It's okay if everything seems disappointing right now. It's okay if you're struggling right now , we all are different and deal with problems in our own. Pain and suffering are a part of life , it makes us stronger and helps us grow . We can sort things out and find a way to get through this later because success tastes sweeter only after failure. It helps us learn and grow because this is all about support and validation
©aan_to_lina
#givingup
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aan_to_lina 8w
#struggle #toxicpositivity #bepositive #thistooshallpass #believeinyourself #givingup #motivation probably posting after so long ! So it has to be good guys!!!!!!
12 0bloom_like_a_flower3009 18w
Sucidal thoughts don't always start with the way it is, at times it starts with depression, fear, anxiety, failure, toxic household, emotional breakdowns and many more, we don't always end up living a happy life, for instance if a student in this online mode of education says they cannot handle the worsening status of their mental and physical health, it simply means that the society is putting a pressure on them and honestly you telling them don't give up or think positive, isn't a way to keep up with people's expectations. Now we all agree we are humans, but students have slogged, the Society has treated us like mere Robots who they think are free the entire day, just because of sitting in the house with a laptop in front of them. Now I'm not saying it ain't hard on professors, i get it. I agree that it's hard for you as well, but what would you do if your kid sucides because of the toll the education system has taken upon them. You know I've always wished if I could probably vanish to another galaxy, where 1 in 16 million students don't sucide everyday. I wish that was true, but for sure that won't happen in today's reality, yeah maybe it could happen in those fantasy movies. Not really sure about that, but if i as a student die someday, it's because of you. It's because you made us go through those unreal expectations that were never meant for us.
#miraquill #sucide #student #givingupSucidal thoughts and Society
A POV of a student.
©bloom_like_a_flower3009Photo By Adrian Swancar on Unsplash3 0It's not easy....
I doubt she'll live till 2022.
She's faking it.
Fake tears.
She's heartless.
She fakes her emotions.
Attention seeker.
She doesn't deserve him.
Eww she's so fat.
She's like a stick, who would even like her.
Your so ugly.
If you had a clear skin you would look prettier.
You look beautiful when your fair.
Try going to this salon they'll help you with your face.
You should choose, you cannot have two best friends.
Eat more, your so thin.
Oh you want to die, i kept you in my womb for 9 months to hear this from you.
Oh you listen to those Chinese boys, they're spoiling your manners.
When you need me the most I won't be there.
Your a cheater you deserve it.
Your a heart breaker he doesn't need you.
You'll break his heart.
I'll be with you till the end.
Just because I chose to live that doesn't mean life is easy, I'm trying to find every little reason to keep going.
And it's not easy to find reasons to keep going.
©bloom_like_a_flower30099 0It's okay to give up
on things sometimes
We all would be tired
of trying in the end
But what truely matters
is for feeling content
You had always tried
your best in what you did
You did what you could
and if it didn't work out
It's still alright
Your efforts mattered
©nandhinikannanPhoto By Simon Burle on Unsplash13 0Giving Up
I have given up no matter what will happen about my feeling
It's not that I'm sad you didn't answer, but I know this shouldn't have happened
Believe me, we better forget each other
So that we are not bound to feelings that are not yet timed
I'm also just an ordinary human
That feeling of love and admiration can come just like that
But I'm trying to hold back that it's not the feeling it should be
So I think, I should giving up.
Holding myself back from falling deeper into my feelings for you15 3- itsautumn @behind_being thank you very much for your support. Keep Fighting. We can through this together :)
- miraquill_assistant Welcome to Miraquill!😊
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itsautumn
@miraquill_assistant thank you very much. It's my first time upload my post here.
Please help me to be better with this.
Love,
Autumn ☺️
bloom_like_a_flower3009 32w
Who says you can't fight alone, ik it gets hard at times, but would giving up solve what your going through right now? No! It wouldn't it would just past on to your loved ones and they might not be as strong as you! Don't give up! Please don't, The world needs you, the world isn't that rich to loose a precious person like you. Your precious and you may not know that now, but you are trust me! Just don't, Please don't give up.....
#givingup #miraquill #fightYou can fight alone!
Coming back stronger and proving them wrong, They tell you, " You cannot fight alone" and you believe them. They are right after all and your proving them right by giving up. What if everything just goes right? What if you don't fail? You don't have a reply to these questions because you never tried, You never took the first step! How would you know you'd fail if you didn't try it yet? Your afraid of it because your brain keeps telling you that if you fail they'll laugh. It's their fault to Laugh at you and it's your job to prove them wrong! They will shut their mouths when they see you've proved them wrong. Don't let that first step slip away, yes I know you're afraid but, what does your heart tell you? You won't fail if you fight alone, yes there may be some hard times where no one wants you to go-ahead, What does your heart say? Doesn't it want to prove them wrong? Doesn't it want to fight?
©bloom_like_a_flower300911 0Whenever we lose or give up something we think is important to us or something we like
then there're high probabilities of getting good opportunities in our path.
©himanshuchaturvediPhoto By Ales Krivec on Unsplash5 0What was I thinking
I thought you would stay,
I thought you wouldn't give up on me,
What was I thinking!
©zoeyzoe12 0Day by day
Minute by minute
I notice the ends of my brain begins to fray,
I don't know what it is!
Why i was made this way!
My will to live just slowly fades.
Ever so surely,
It fades away.
I haven't died yet,
Nor do I have a date set.
But i know without a doubt,
I'll not live to see my heart give out.
©nistha_das24 3 2- night_admirer @polluxbaby thank you pal✨
- night_admirer @sarcastic_balak thanks a lot buddy ✨
- night_admirer @sarcastic_balak sure
raghavendrabs 64w
Sun, Waves and Hope
When the sun sucks out any interest that remains
And life takes a nihilistic turn
The moon comes along with another set of dreams
And the subconscious has something left to learn and in some cases, yearn.
When the waves hit harder than expected
But the sails of determination remain strong
Despite the rocking of the situations inflicted
And again the ship of life sees a happy change come along!
When hopes twinkles like stars
Just know that the darkness that you see
Doesn’t linger like the dark gap between those twinkles
In an never ending starlight spree.
When you hit rock bottom and things just doesn’t seem to change
And you’re all set to give up on life
Remember to wait a bit more and let life rearrange
Because a patient and difficult living is far better than a regretful afterlife.
-
Raghavendra B S
©raghavendrabs11 0captain_ali_01 67w
A TROUBLING TRANCE
Think away the cobwebs in your brain;
Enigmatic destroyers that make you sane;
Ones that inspire you and your fantasies
To flee from your tragedies,
Waking you up to wind chimes
In dreams deviating from your life's paradigm.
Seal your mind so nothing breaks free
Into the world like writings on a paper
Torn to pieces and buried in the sea;
Becoming nothing but vestigial vapor
That burns under the sun's mercy.
Wage wars against your angels,
And shun the evangel
Who forces peace and salvation
Onto hearts that fear eternal damnation.
Look through the walls covering verities
That open doors to your prosperity,
For there exists no purity.
Cry for the power you weren't given,
Seek only that which leaves you driven
To chase what was snatched in your sleep;
A reality that cuts you deep;
Where you realize the roses aren't always red,
Some wither, others die
And you shall never know why
Till the day you're out of your head.
©captain_ali_019 0Giving up
Why do we give up?
We give up because it gets too hard,
We give up because we have failed so many times that we respond by giving up,
We give up because we don't understand why they left us,
We give up because we find it more easier than failing,
We give up because we've been hurt so much that we say true love doesn't exist,
Ofcourse there are various reasons to give up and at some point of our lives we all have thought of giving up,
Sometimes we search for reasons to give up,
But,
Why haven't you given up yet? what is that one reason that holds you back?
What is it that tells you not to give up?
Maybe you need this right now, maybe your going through a hard time right now, and you really want someone to tell you this.
You are pretty,
You are worthy,
You are strong,
You are loved.
And it's totally okay to not be okay.
If you ever feel like giving up Remind yourself that one reason
" Why you haven't given up yet? "
©bloom_like_a_flower300968 0 9After you gave up trying and holding on to someone or something after you have done your part, you then said i am going with the flow, this is exactly when you surrender and handover yourself to God and you entrust yourself with God's plan and indeed he is the best of planners just have faith in him.
@S.A12 0 1.
11 0 2shadowsoul 86w
I have been given up on giving up !
©lightningshadow8 0 1I don't learn giving up, I learn failing.
©snehal_busa10 2shraddha_wonders 91w
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#life #lifeHurts #givingUp #disables
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@mirakee @writersnetworkLife hurts,
But Giving Up Disables
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©shraddha_wonders124 3 9- preetkanwal So true , congratulations on WNrepost 💐💐💐
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yours_fortune 91w
Life is a Blessing
At the end of the day,
Close your eyes and say it to yourself
"I will handle this, like I use to do"
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#life #struggles #bepositive #bemotivated #lifehacks #happiness #hacks #truthoflife #emotions #baddays #gooddays #givingup #struggling #strugglesWhenever I think of giving up, I suddenly realize "I have been through a lot"
14 0so low solo
no one to turn to
if you just need a friend
everyone hurts you
when you reach out to them
say they're there for you
and an ear they will lend
then they desert you
guess their words were pretend
why should some one
want to continue to live
if they took a gun
and pulled on the trig
cause nobody would run
to see what you did
they would just go on
as you did never exist
©nothingleftsoiwrite