Don't make a girl fall in love with a fake you.
And don't take pride thinking you are loved.
Because trust me, she won't ; once she knows the truth. And if you really do love her, are you brave enough to tell her the truth? Can you accept all of your mistakes, so that she can atleast have a choice.Everyone deserves to be loved truly without any lies, without any sneaky behaviour, without any third parties. You are snatching her chance to be loved by a better man, who'd probably give her the world. Don't be so selfish. No matter what, your actions will come around one day. A sorry without changed behaviour is another lie, that "sorry" is manipulation & gaslighting. Do you know what all this is? Emotional abuse. And it can leave a trauma so big that it might take a lifetime healing it. They may never love again, they may never trust again. Breaking someone's heart takes only seconds but fixing it may take years. Hate me if you want to, but I've only shown you a mirror and the reflection you see is your own.
To all those girls hurting, you are worthy. Nobody has the right to tell you that you are overreacting, because you are not. This is not "victim mentality". Everything you feel is justified. Your pain and your cries are justified. All I can say is heal even though it's a long process and it takes patience. Please hold on to yourself.
And to that girl unknown about the fact that she is loving a guy not worth it, I feel sorry for you. I hurt for you. For I have been that girl too.