It's unbelievable how you wouldn't repeat the same cycle that you passed through when it comes to your own family, yet you would risk doing it to others not in relation to you, or probably do it to someone within your family whom you do not get along with.
When you swore that you wouldn't let injustice that was done to you in the past to ever repeat the same to any other human, then you should stop it for all. Don't lean on just the few you know.Apply justice for all.
Stay true to your words.
And when you slip and make the same injustice cycle happen again then own your actions. Own your mistakes.
Goodness thrives when we accept to change our future for the better life not just for ourselves but for others as well.
Do unto others what you want them to do to you. Treat all with kindness and love.
Most of those afflicted with miserable childhood memories they tend to protect their children from getting the same treatment. However, they fail to recognise that they are repeating the same behaviour to other people in the name of "Protecting their OWN." When you decide to end it, then end it for all. Don't specify but generalize to all.
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They say, " When you go to Rome, do like what the Romans do." My question is What if that means compromising your faith? Leaving your hijab ? Leaving your niqab ? Just to blend in with the society. It's not a matter of doing what the people of that community/country do.
It's a matter of staying true to your religion, your faith, yourself and most importantly obeying and submitting to the same God whom you were submitting to, before.
Relationships that have an aim of lasting forever together as one, always pose a solution that one of the two arguing has to step down and either forgive or ask for forgiveness.
However, if the goal to formulating or driving this accidental or unintentional drama, "argument," is not to find a solution but other selfish motives then this strategy won't work.
As one of the two parties won't accept to step down.
Rather leading to a back and forth argument that would sabotage that relationship.
Before you wonder why it's an endless argument, sit back and reflect and ask yourself, " Why was I arguing ? What is my motive behind this argument?" "What am I aiming for to gain at the end of this argument?"
The answer to this will guide your way to the solution.
Either forgive or ask for forgiveness if truly your motive is to seek a solution.
Before you utilise your energy to fight for something, always know if it wasn't worth worrying for then it's not worth fighting for.
If your emotions and feelings towards that thing is inclining towards negativity then what's the use of utilising all your energy to fight for something that you truly and deeply don't care nor worry for. It's a wastage of time and energy.
If you truly care for something or someone then worry evolves and you start searching for ways on how to handle or solve the situation.
Usually emotions connect to that person or thing.
But, if there's no spark of emotion which would result in no concern/interest nor worrying then there's no need to fight for it.
Emotions trigger the strength and energy to achieve something. They keep that person moving inspite of all the struggles he/she faces on that path. Just know if there's no emotions to care and worry then it's not worth fighting for.
We do get overwhelmed and distressed at times and our minds don't think straight. That's why we are advised by psychologists to not make any decisions when in an emotional state. Whether angry or very happy ...Do not make any desicion nor do or say anything that would backfire when you are back to a normal and moderate state.
Moderation in Islam is an essential element in any act or word.
When we get informed then we do have questions coming up in our minds, so that we can be able to connect the dots. When we miss a gap to understand the story then that's when salt and chilli made-up stories based on thoughts are forcefully filled in so that we can end the story in a full drama.
However, this is someone's life we are talking about. When you listen then listen to help and not listen to just fill the gap. When you need to ask then ask because you care for that person and are willing to help and not ask just for the sake of being "informed" so you can fill your curiosity gaps. Both ways we do, but it depends on which result you want to choose.
We do worry, we do get anxious about the future and we do get these negative thoughts that linger in our mind which later affect our spiritual belief and hence trigger our yaqeen(certainty) towards Allah. We add Shakk (uncertainty ) and test Allah to see whether He will do it or not. This happens often, apart from being Qadar(destiny), where we make dua about something and we may do the acts involved in this and even say the correct words but with no yaqeen in heart and we see a failure at the end. Let's take an example: Reading the dua:(Words) بسم الله ×3 أعوذ بالله وقدرته من شر ما أجد و احاذروا ×7 And putting your right hand on the pain on your body or someone else's body(action) whilst reciting this makes the pain go away.
But, where are our thoughts? Our thoughts are still stuck on the fact that it's not the dua that will work but the panadol that I drank earlier. You have uncertainty towards the Dua but very certain on the Painkiller tablet you had.
And guess what! You may or may not heal. You are testing and trying on Allah's powers! And He has the choice to either heal you or not. Just try to push the negative thoughts with positive thoughts of certainty that you will heal by Allah's Grace and Mercy.
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