Process : A series of actions or steps taken in order to achieve a particular end.
It is all a process they say, it takes time, you need to take one step at a time. Be patient, slow down, go with the pace they'd say.
But then when have we ever done anything as per process? When is it in life that you're taught to be slow? it's a race that we keep running at a pace where you'll be rewarded/ recognised as extraordinary when you're fast. The kid who started walking fast, or the kid who was really good at studies and extra curricular activities, or the kid who is a fast learner.
So I mean really Why is it that at the beginning of anything we want it all to be rushed, so much adrenaline but when it comes to an end of anything we slow down.
Love is often compared to falling which is quick, cannot be controlled, limitless then why is it that falling out of love has to be slow, takes time, has to be in limits, needs to be controlled. But as important as it is to fall in love it is to fall out of love too they say.
So he tells me you need to heal.. I can't because then I'll not be able to bleed on the pages with the agony in my words, I'll not be able to pour out all the emotions on the paper, I'll not be able to make you feel the pain as it exists. Am I crazy? No! But love is they say..
Often the shards of broken mirror are supposed to be laid out in a fashionable way that it gives the idea that its broken by not hurting the asthete.