Part of the day you laugh, enjoy, have fun and even think, " Boy! I have the best brother/sister in the World." Fast forward, later on in the day, silly argument, quarrels, fights, dislike, and you think, " Ayayayay! Why do I wish he/she disappears?"
I've been there! I hear you! That's how crazy it is! It will never be all smooth and easy peasy. It's a rough road. You wonder why? Why does it happen that way? Well! For starters, you came from the same source, but just like every other human being you've met seemed to be different. It's the same scenario with your siblings. They are multi-coloured. They have different personalities.
You've got to accept and respect the differences. Live with them. Expect that it will never be lovey-dovey. It will forever be ups and downs. Stop the over expectations. Accept each other's flaws. Well! Just like after a storm is sunshine, and after a sunshine is storm, then it's the same scenario with you two.
They care about you. They don't hate you. Dislike may happen during the anger period but it will go and guess what ? It may come again.
What goes round comes around! Share your funny fights siblings story below!
When you choose to remain calm, understanding, and considerate during a certain dramatic scene that has been played before, then you have outgrown those distractions and they seem petty & wastage of energy, time and focus.
Pat on your back for growing up!
The prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم used to choose to remain calm during certain intriguing situations. Maryam bint Imran عليها السلام was instructed to remain silent during the birth of Nabii Issa عليه السلام Zakariyah عليه السلام was asked to remain silent for 3 days.
Imam Malik was known for his quietness and the one who wasn't afraid to answer with لا أعلم ( I do not know ) when he was questioned to give rulings to certain situations.
This shows the importance of choosing silence. If prophets and righteous beings chose it, then who are we to speak up, when you know deep inside, it will just add more oil to the burning flame ?
This isn't the first time this has happened. Remaining calm during a play means you have grown mentally and attained a level of wisdom that not many can understand.
Choose silence when a certain past scenario is being played again in front of your eyes.