#remindersbym

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  • moitreyee 29w

    Dear Ladies,

    Firstly, never feel worthless or unhappy just because of some biological condition that restricts you to give birth. Giving birth is not an obligation for a woman. Women aren't baby making machines. We are humans too, our purpose in life should not wholly revolve around or depend upon giving birth but to earn for ourselves and our loved ones such that we stay independent and do not feel the need to rely on anyone for our personal needs and have some self respect.

    Secondly, if people really do want a child, why do they not adopt ? There are several kids abandoned, in the streets, in the orphanage and still no one feels to adopt them. I'm not saying to adopt them for the sake of charity, if you feel the need of a child's presence in your life, why are you still choosy ?
    ©moitreyee

  • moitreyee 29w

    Today I came across some videos where people were drawing freckles on their nose and cheeks to look beautiful and aesthetic. Few years ago what's considered to be a flaw is now a trend. Similarly I came across a video where a girl used red lipstick to draw fake dark circles and it really looked good. Here I am using actives to treat my dark circle when it's already a trend. So never consider anything as flawed. Beauty standards are silly, they change with time.

    Asians' obsession with fair skin is well known throughout the world. Similarly, people having pale skin prefer tanned skin. I believe every skin colour is beautiful. The beauty industry tricks you by showing ads that represent a particular feature as inferior to the other. Beauty shouldn't be a stereotype, it should be your uniqueness which makes you different from other people. Your features are your identity, never feel inferior or wait for other people's validation.

    You're beautiful. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. I know you have heard this everywhere, but now it's time to practically apply it in your life.
    Let's focus on improving our biggest asset, our brain, rather than torturing ourselves to fit a certain beauty standard.

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    @sarcasm Thanks for your words yesterday.

    This writing is inspired from words of Sarfaraj (@sarcasm), tiktok videos in youtube -.- and common sense.

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    If you looked like your favourite idol,
    You wouldn't have any identity of your own.
    Make your uniqueness a trend.
    ©moitreyee

  • moitreyee 30w

    There will be times when life may seem like a stagnant courtesy you bear to please some expectations. Somewhere between the hustle of work at rush hour in roads of our liabilities, we not seldom feel like patients in a queue, gasping for their chance to feel alive again.

    We sit by the window, staring at the clouds, thinking if there's any break in this unending struggle. We juggle our faith and watch if there's still a hope left to call the struggle a path. We fear yet not stop like the failed writer who writes a novel on "not giving up".

    We drown in parts yet die in bits, like a half written poem that shreds and splits; yet on days when the sun is high, we trace hope along the hopeful paperboats that floats through courses of some newborn faith.

    Can stirring the vision outside, ignite the hope inside ?

    Let's pass by some castles of the people, rich and watch their smiling faces that fail to fake the smile. Let's pass by some huts of the people, poor and watch their tears rolling down their smiles.

    What's makes you a loser , failing after giving your best or not trying for the fear of failure ?
    - Moitreyee Bhaduri
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    Credits : The last question is inspired from the film , " Chhichhore"

    P.S. This is a hopenote I wrote for myself and for readers to make them feel better and to let them know that they are not alone in their fight in this pandemic, quarantine, loss of dear ones, competitions, work, meeting expectations of our loved ones or getting tired with life.

    @coldplaydreams Debjit, I just wanted you to read this. Also, know that life is hard at times, sometimes boring too, what makes you successful is your mental toughness. Keep going. Also I will be posting a text you have send me once when I was disheartened to hear the death of one of my friend's dad. Do you remember ? I haven't asked you before posting this cause probably you are sleeping now. So I am posting this here to help others as well to get through the pain when their dear ones die.

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    "It's difficult to digest the fact that death will part us from the very bonding that was in existence since birth.
    All that's in our hands should be taken care of to maximise the living period. As all lives come to an end so shall we too be present at the doom one day. We'll keep crying for our loved ones and memories will keep haunting us but that won't change the truth that we lost a part of us. Every attachment brings with it some serious downsides to it. They make us weak as much they make us strong. That is what we live with and a person who has left by all the attachments in his/her life is a yogi/monk. Nothing can lure him/her in this material world. He's void of all emotions. And he will attain nirvana/moksha. In this way he becomes free of all that could pull him back. It doesn't mean that he doesn't live. Rather the world is dead to him. And all that he sees is truth. Death is true. The only happening in the life of someone which brings out the true feeling in the beings around the dead person all of whom spent days with him/her. Cause this is the last of him/her that they're seeing. And after this day none like him/her would speak a word to them."

    - @coldplaydreams

    @writersnetwork @mirakee #pod

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    Can stirring the vision outside,
    ignite the hope inside ?
    ©moitreyee

  • moitreyee 34w

    Phrases are rusted customs of the growling chambers in a writer's heart.

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    Holding onto people is a tough ride. Let's not do this anymore. Let's sit back and watch who puts an effort to stay without being in our hold.
    ©moitreyee