Too often we become resentful and blame the world for our misfortune, for our needs not being met.
It is important to realize that pretty much everyone on this planet was put here and given all the means necessary to take care of our own needs and wants.
Unless you are a child, or seriously hampered from asking for what you need, then it is your responsibility to get your own needs met.
This does not mean that you have to do everything yourself, but it is your responsibility to reach out to other mature people around you to get your needs met in a healthy appropriate manner.
If you believe that your life has problems, understand that no problem can be solved unless you take full responsibility for taking care of it.
So stop blaming others and playing the victim card.
Men are defined by their actions.
Choose to act with integrity in whatever you do and see the universe unravel its gifts for you.