I have lost it, The sweet scent of a blossoming immature bud. I have lost it, The soft warmth of my sunshine's rub. I have lost it, The exciting shiver of a cold shower. I have lost it, The pulchritude of the fallen bewildered blood-red leaves. I have lost it, My sheltered cozy drapings in an outgoing iniquitous winter.
All I have now are the lost seasons.
~~~~~~~~~~~~•~~~~~~~~~~~~~•~~~~~~~~~~ Glossary- •iniquitous: grossly unfair and morally wrong.
This is not a poem nor any type of writing, this is just a reminder to my fellow friends who have been sexually or physically abused. I've been there myself, and it's not good to keep it to yourself and to just keep writing about it. SPEAK UP!!! THAT IS WHY WE HAVE A VOICE!! let the people who truly care about you protect you and give karma to whoever is abusing you. If you need a shoulder to lean on I'm here, but the voice starts from you, not me.
mzcupcake11Truth! Don't be ashamed about how you've been treated! You didn't ask for it.. you didn't deserve it! Do not keep keep it a secret.. talk to someone you trust! I kept mine a secret for decades! It ruined me..
We always think that when a person dominates over the body of opposite gender , harass sexually and destroy the body of victim then that it is a rape .. Have you ever heard about the "sight rape or sight rapist" "verbally rape or verbal rapist. which people do this and how it's done ..
1 ) SIGHT RAPE AND RAPIST
When a man looks at a woman, it would be more better to say scaring the woman, analysing her body parts with vulgarity. Everyone has sexual organs but depends on mentality how someone deals .Even after having Mother, sister, wife and daughter. they look at females even at little girls in an inappropriate manner.They observe deeply their body shape and all. Exactly vise versa when a woman thinks such about man.
Note : The sight which create the feeling of insecurity of the body or life is just called Sight Rape..
This is one of the most common type of rape done by almost every male right ? Then what precautions should we take.?
I know dressing doesn't matter for women but still we should take safe sight infront of men Don't wear such clothes which expose your body or attain the shape of your body. Sometimes girls says that .why should we leave our choices ? u want wear shorts that's ur choice but people out there they don't understand ..
Your choice is a snake bite to yourself ! Alright you want to wear shorts so that's your wish but dear girls have you ever thought that outside your home you are providing a tasty chance you are giving them authority , your permission to relax their venomous eyes you should fulfil your wishes at your home, but don't give chance to me to look at you with their thirsty eyes.
Stop being sight rape victims. we can't stop Rapists but we reduce the opportunity for them
2) VERBALLY RAPE AND VERBAL RAPIST.
ohhhh, what is that ? who can rape verbally. ? When those abusing words are used they define rape then its just called a vervbal rape and speaker is rapist. This rape is not done externally on the body but its done internal, it doesn't mean murder physically but it completely makes the soul, bleed internally. It happens, most times in a day at least once through out the life mostly it happens .A sorrowful think is that we all are the victims ,again 95% female are affected rest 5% male are verbally raped .
All the places on this earth where male dominant societies , There all the woman are verbally raped this is the bitter and sorrowful truth, and the deadly painful thing is that those female are targeted by their own man , their own family members, father brother, husband and Son.. Only these 4 relations with a man destroys an innocent woman's life as they give untreatable wounds to the 4 innocent woman i.e. Mother, Sister, Wife and daughter.
They abuse them verbally, They use words defining rape for their woman , even the daughters when father get angryor when he is drunk then he verbally abuses their daughters mostly it is the wife who is abused and but she is also helpless in male dominant society Wifes are treated as animals Husband keep her on the tip of there shoes. They shout , abuse for every single mistake . They abuse the mother of the wife by saying that she is an illegitimate offspring of her parents.
Yeah, it's unbelievable but it happens . The husband never thinks about her only what he thinks is "I have the right to beat her "women suffer alot with physical and mental torture.
In such societies an unmarried girl is a responsibility to her parents but a divorced girl is a burden . That's why a most women are afraid of divorcing There are so many reasons as to why they fear divorcing Firstly respect of parents and then her children. Due to such situations men just end up using there weaknesses . When another girl grows up in such family situations She also gets afraid like her mother who is mistreated we know "mountains can move but behaviour can't change "Daughter also become victims of verbal abuse and such type of man are so proud of themselves
There are such people in the society for whom nobody matters neither wife nor daughter, they only matter to themselves .
Girls / boys remember nobody can reduce your Food and life except God .Just put / bow your head Infront of him not such people .
Sry for such a long post ... I know there are several mistakes in the post if u find one while reading do comment i shall recorrect it ...
A little girl asked the god I want to live in a world where people won't rape anyone. God replied okay I will change just for 12 hrs.
The little girl has seen the men and woman are behaving like brothers and sisters as we pledge every day in the school all people are my brother and sisters.
Where lovers, married couples have started loving each other by heart rather than for bedtime. Same-gender people are having sex without hesitation. Girls are happily roaming in shorts even at night time. No one is giving weird looks or slut stares for the girls or girls body.
No one is objectifying anyone, for others personality. Everything seems like half the problem in this world has just vanished.
And she was seeing this from heaven. God told 12 hrs are over. She asked why can't you make it forever. I don't want anyone to get raped & die like me.
Sexual abuse is not a joke. No matter the gender, abuse is abuse. Educate people around you about consent. Her clothes, his personality do not ask for it. It is not okay to sexually abuse a man and tell him to shut up about it. It is not okay to show a finger on a man who wants to complain about sexual abuse he went through. It doesn't make him any less of a 'man'.