When you are the reason for someone's miserable past life then do know it never goes unnoticed by Allah. The pen has written and the ink has dried. Erase the bitter pages before it's too late. What goes round comes around.... You may get the punishment back in this world or the Hereafter.
It's one of the chapters in your book that you made someone's life miserable. The pen has written and the ink has dried.
Erase it by making Tawbah and seeking forgiveness from that person.
Or else it will come back to you.
Allah doesn't allow Dhulm (Injustice) go unnoticed.
Or else it will be projected in the Hereafter, where everyone will see and witness what kind of a pathetic, evil person you were.
Many at times, we wonder where did we go wrong ? Why all these worldly issues never end? After covid, another phase came in then another hijab ban then another famine strike and on and on. It seems endless. Have you ever wondered why ?
We, humans were created in different tribes all connected towards Islam. If we would rule this world based upon how each tribe recognizes their culture to be right and just, then for sure there will be more chaos than ever.
Islam is our origin. We all originate from Adam, alayhi salaam.
Look at the story of Banu Israeel, they lost their origin (Tawheed - Oneness of Allah) and started going back to shirk (Associating partners with Allah). Look at where it led them to ? Destruction over destruction. Pharaoh came in and started manipulating them, their kids were killed out of that result. They lived in fear, pain, anxiety and depression. They lost control over their lives. It all started from losing their origin!
This #hijab ban that's going on. Till us Muslims start respecting the hijab by wearing it in its original form where No neck is shown, No ears are shown, No glittery nor any form of adornment is on top of it, No perfumed scent. Complete original form where we respect it as Muslims then other religions will respect it too, bidnillah! #respect your origins! You want to change the world. You want Allah to change this era. Change from within. Start with YOU! Al-Anfal 8:53
Part of the day you laugh, enjoy, have fun and even think, " Boy! I have the best brother/sister in the World." Fast forward, later on in the day, silly argument, quarrels, fights, dislike, and you think, " Ayayayay! Why do I wish he/she disappears?"
I've been there! I hear you! That's how crazy it is! It will never be all smooth and easy peasy. It's a rough road. You wonder why? Why does it happen that way? Well! For starters, you came from the same source, but just like every other human being you've met seemed to be different. It's the same scenario with your siblings. They are multi-coloured. They have different personalities.
You've got to accept and respect the differences. Live with them. Expect that it will never be lovey-dovey. It will forever be ups and downs. Stop the over expectations. Accept each other's flaws. Well! Just like after a storm is sunshine, and after a sunshine is storm, then it's the same scenario with you two.
They care about you. They don't hate you. Dislike may happen during the anger period but it will go and guess what ? It may come again.
What goes round comes around! Share your funny fights siblings story below!
When you choose to remain calm, understanding, and considerate during a certain dramatic scene that has been played before, then you have outgrown those distractions and they seem petty & wastage of energy, time and focus.
Pat on your back for growing up!
The prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم used to choose to remain calm during certain intriguing situations. Maryam bint Imran عليها السلام was instructed to remain silent during the birth of Nabii Issa عليه السلام Zakariyah عليه السلام was asked to remain silent for 3 days.
Imam Malik was known for his quietness and the one who wasn't afraid to answer with لا أعلم ( I do not know ) when he was questioned to give rulings to certain situations.
This shows the importance of choosing silence. If prophets and righteous beings chose it, then who are we to speak up, when you know deep inside, it will just add more oil to the burning flame ?
This isn't the first time this has happened. Remaining calm during a play means you have grown mentally and attained a level of wisdom that not many can understand.
Choose silence when a certain past scenario is being played again in front of your eyes.
Goodness thrives when we accept to change our future for the better life not just for ourselves but for others as well.
Do unto others what you want them to do to you. Treat all with kindness and love.
Most of those afflicted with miserable childhood memories they tend to protect their children from getting the same treatment. However, they fail to recognise that they are repeating the same behaviour to other people in the name of "Protecting their OWN." When you decide to end it, then end it for all. Don't specify but generalize to all.
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