It’s a Blessed gift for the parents. Parents who adopt a child, they give him full love even more than his own child But the family and relatives never accept that child.
It’s a very creative bond between Parent-Child, a relationship of heart and not biology 🧬
“We are a Family Because We have chosen To be.... “
Adopted child always gets discriminated against children with blood relation as •No one loves them •they are ignored in family gatherings •they are not considered to have much rights in the family and at home.
If either of the parents expires, then the life of the adopted child becomes hell. Cousins or relatives sexually harass, the child is not safe in his own home.
Everyone sees with an evil eye, a child who is being adopted does not feel safe anywhere.
“The child gets immense love from the parents is the only benefit, all the other difficulties remain in the life of the adopted child”
You need to just shut the door and never open again. You need to close relation on a good note and telling the correct reason that why you want to leave?
Because leaving someone with giving a valid reason to someone feels painful. And, if you think they don't give a shit to you at all and they don't care whether you leave or stay. You just need to say a goodbye and never open the doors again.
The song Refiner by Maverick City Music is what inspired me to write this but you can also apply this as inspiration from the book of Daniel when Daniel's friends are thrown into the furnace but God will get you through the fire whether it touches you or it doesn't sometimes the fire has to make you like the fire the blacksmith's use to form a sword or God will get you through the fire which are the trials of your life all He asks of you is to have faith in Him God is a faithful God and never abandons His children!