Often we expect alot of things from people around be it loyalty, support, kindness etc, but how much of this do we have for ourselves? Point is Are we loyal to ourselves before we go around looking for loyalty from someone?? Do we believe in ourselves before we go out there to seek certifications from others??
There is alot in us that we can serve to ourselves, its just sometimes we are repulsive of the idea of being friends with our own self.