Some of us have the right approach to come out from the saddening or depressing phase before its too late but still some get stuck there for long. And it’s all so normal that this happens with everyone. Though some people are good at presenting the best parts of their lives so well (especially on social media) that they conceal the worst part from others, in some cases from themselves as well. This makes us all wonder that the other person is so happy and joyous with the kind of life he has, which is not true, always.
As a child, I’d always wished to have a super-power to swiftly swap my life with someone who is laughing all the time with just a snap of a finger (one of those silly thoughts of child). But with time, I’ve realised that good and bad are just the phases of life. Swapping my life won’t solve the purpose.
The downs of our lives are only there to make us stronger and more confident than what we were before. We can complain that roses have thorns or rejoice that thorns have roses, choice is completely ours. As far as my experiences are concerned, I have seen that these choices that we take, the viewpoint that we have, the constant thoughts that keep on going in our minds, somehow defines us as a person. Our personality is variable, its based on the thoughts we have in our mind all the time. So, its very important to take charge of those thoughts well in advance. Our minds are so powerful and subconsciously we all are stronger than what we expect from ourselves.
The only important step is to train your subconscious mind by constantly feeding positive and motivating information. If you are able to do that in your gleeful time then in your downhearted time the subconscious mind will take the charge of your conscious mind and won’t let you fail anyway. Trust me, sometimes redirection of thoughts is the only aspect needed.
The levels of stress are changing from one generation to another, so does the levels of mental abilities. Our minds work the best when we aren’t stressed. Staying positive and calm can help our mind to grow. The state of our mind can only help in defining our journey because in the end we have to reach the destination no matter how difficult the path had been. The size of our success is measured by strength of our desire , size of our dream and how we handle the disappointment along the way.
If these points make any sense to you then you should start working on it and soon you will be ready to download a new version of yourself. And the inextinguishable spark within you will help you in the transformation.⁂⁂