• tortoise 23w

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    Hello @writersnetwork it's been long, since i tagged you! :)

    I know the challenge is over, but i promised her to participate, after i finish up with my novel ( it's #TheBestManSeries if anyone wants to read it!).

    So yea, here's tagging her challenge account! @luvnotes_challenge_host

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    Past L(if)e!

    Who might you have been in a past life?

    If i were to believe, just like you, to have lived a life in the past, i imagine to be born as a guy, with an immense longing to feel how it would be to live like a woman, who doesn't need to work, or struggle and gets everything by men. And may be, that's why, I'm born as a woman to acknowledge what all they go through all their lives.

    If i were to believe, in my past life, i imagine myself in the tattered shoes, or may be walking on the rough lands barefoot, since I've respected the invention of footwear more than anything else, and i absolutely love my comfortable sports shoes.

    If there was any past life of mine, i imagine myself to be overburdened by my appetite, that i had to put my passion away for mere survival, since the only driving force in my life is passion to achieve my goals, even when there's no external force. I fear failing in making my career more than anything else. It's like what if i couldn't make it, that keeps making me work my ass off!

    If i were to believe, anything about my past life, i imagine myself to be a taker, of goods, and feelings, because all this life, I've been on the giving side. A giver of money, advices, notes, work, friendship, happiness, and second chances. It's like paying off the debts, with interests.

    And, lastly, if i were to believe in any past, i imagine myself to be an orphan, or someone who couldn't receive true love, for my life revolves around people who shower me with their immense love, in every form, of family and friends, to which I'm absolutely grateful!

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    • tortoise @rimi_ojha you're judging me too quick re! I asked because we've never talked anything about. And mirakee is a place with lots many issues. So i don't know what it might be for. That's why.

      About your question, it was about this marriage na? You deleted it ~_~ pagol!
    • tortoise @rimi_ojha okie i get it. I'll respond to it soon. Abhi I'm a little occupied ._.
    • tortoise @rimi_ojha according to our constitutional rights, we all are provided freedom. If one is religious, they must know how God has given each of us freedom to choose. And if one is atheist, they already believe in freedom of choices.

      What i mean to say, is that freedom is our right. For child and parent. So is a girl and boy are adult (for marriage) and interested in each other to spend life together, they are free to do so. Since they're assumed to be mature enough to take their life decisions. Doesn't matter what future holds for both of them, that's their vision.

      About parents, the fact that they always consider their children as kids, they try to take away their freedom in the name of care and love. But true love never snatches freedom, it only enhances it. So a healthy discussion should be done in cases of conflict and misunderstandings. Parents should tell their fears open heartedly to their children about marriage or for any matter, yet they can't force them (legally). If a child finds their point correct, and wants to think about their consideration, and change his/her own choice, that's allowed. But if the child is adamant on his/her decision to marry someone, because it feels right to them, parents should support their children even if that means to downsize their own ego and selfishness.
    • tortoise @rimi_ojha but this is what things should be. Should is should, never must. Not much of this applies to people in real. This world is different when it comes to practicality, and different when it comes to preachings. In the end, we should not forget, we're all alone, born alone and would die alone, yet our presence do affect a few people, so we should consider their existence in our lives. It's usually a mutual co-existence that brings true happiness in the end.
    • tortoise @rimi_ojha anytime! That was a tricky question, i might not have done true justice, but then, that's all for now. We all grow, at our own pace, and so does our brains. May be our vision changes in near future, and i think that's good too!