To a most brave and precious soul: We are so proud of you . If I say India is safe just because of you I am not exaggerating. You safeguard our country’s huge LOC and LAC on the western and eastern fronts. Some of you do the hardest duties in the world at Siachin where temperature is freezing to bone.It is not every day we say that we are thankful to you but we should.We are proud of you for always doing whatever it takes to fulfill your duty, to honor your commitment, to uphold your oath. We are proud of your selflessness that allows you to put others above your family and even your own desires and safety; you people deserve kudos for having dealt with the enemies of the country with iron hand.wo surgical strikes in the year 2016 were befitting replies to the enemies. While the whole nation today is busy debating the contours of nationalism, I’m writing to you – whom I believe to be the best example of someone who works unconditionally for the good of the nation. I’m writing to say those three magic words we've learnt as kids – thank you, sorry and please. First and foremost, I’m shouting out a heartfelt “THANK YOU” for all you have done and continue to do for our country. Over the past many years, I have witnessed your unshaken resolve to do what is right, your enthusiasm to go the extra mile and your constant putting of others before self. I have marveled at your readiness to venture into deadly territory because it’s the only way to protect this motherland and her citizens, despite the fact that many of them stay indifferent toher and to you. Next, I’m offering an equally deep apology and saying, “SORRY.” I’m sorry for the fact that you and your near and dear ones have to undergo such hardships to ensure people like me wake up secure every morning. I’m sorry that people who know nothing of your hardships and have not experienced even a minute of your life, sit and judge the potential of yours. I’m sorry on behalf of all the armchair analysts and media dimwits who think they have the aptitude to pronounce your actions inept and careless and question if you deserve to be honored when you fall in the line of duty. I’m sorry that there exist some people who are the anti-thesis of what you are and what you stand for – people who advocate separatism and shout slogans of slicing our country to pieces and yet, complain of their freedom of speech being snatched when someone so much as counters their insinuations with hard facts. But “PLEASE”, please do not let these people make you cynical about your countrymen. I agree, many of us are slumbering, lost in their own petty problems of day to day living, with hardly a thought to spare for our country and you, her guardians, and for whom, Captain Anuj Nayyar is nothing more than another statistic.But dear soldier, let me also tell you that there are some of us who try to serve our country in whatever way we know best.We want India to forge ahead and take her rightful place in the global order and cherish the vital role of your sacrifices .We only know that it is a great fortune to be born in this land that gives us such freedom of thought and action. And we know also of the pain that comes when someone is indifferent to our cause or sits in biased judgment over us. We are ever grateful to you and moved and touched by the way you perform your duty unflinchingly. If ever you look at happenings in our country and wonder what you are struggling for, remember this letter, dear soldier. Today, every single member of the Indian Armed Forces is prepared to give up his life for the nation. The day each and every citizen of this country shows this same willingness to sacrifice everything for the motherland, that will be the beginning of her glorious future. We are grateful to God for gifting us with such powerful, selfless, kind and motivated people, who always stand for us. The entire nation is proud of you all. May God always keep you safe and sound! I thank you for reading this through to the end, sir. Jai Hind! With utmost Respect, Yours patriotically, An obliged Indian. Ritika
Some days my words make sense to the world Some days they just end up getting embraced by my diary and make sense just to me lot like my unfinished poems for you this unsaid space between letting the world know and to just shape them, caress them and cage them in my heart . . . I would be lying if I said the latter is easy for if the hearts were a cage, our feelings would have died of suffocation and I need them to breathe, to feel alive, to grow forevermore in space but I fear that would you be able to read when the pages adorn itself with creases of mortality and letters are faded. . . .
Today I am going to share positive perspective on love.Now few people may get this thought that love is positive only what special positive side I'll show here but please be patient and read this completely.
[@diamond49 As you requested I'll talk about Attachment & love both and feeling of love different from love like you said.]
There are few questions related to this that people have asked me:- •Is attachment love? •How can you not expect anything when you're in love? •How do you know that you really love someone? •Why one sided love hurts always? •Does true love even exists? Etc.
For being able to differentiate between love and attachment firstly you need to understand what does this terms mean in reality.
•What is attachment?
Attachment can be defined as a deep and affectionate emotional bond between two people in which each seeks closeness.The major difference between love and attachment is that “love is a feeling directed toward the ‘other’ while attachment is self-centered meaning based on fulfilling your need.
Love makes you patient but attachment makes you impatient. Attachment may seem like actual love but it is absolutely not.When you are attached to someone & you get separated with that person you don't feel sad for them you feel anxious for yourself that their care,love & support isn't with you anymore.
But when you love someone if you get separated you still think about their condition, you don't feel upset that you aren't with them anymore you just pray for that person to be happy. We may feel infatuated with a person but tagging it as love will not convert it into love.
•What is love?
I can't define "Love" by putting it in some definition.In this millennial or gen-Z generation people have made so many stupid definitions of love and because of our conditioning we restrict love with some silly quotations & fulfillments.
For example there was a quote "I am tired of loving you and hoping you'll do the same".If you're getting tired by loving someone then how come is it love? Neither it is personal attack on anyone nor I want to disrespect anybody's emotion.
But my people✨ don't confuse yourself everything with love.And let me share one precious thing "Love is one sided always,two sided love is an illusion".Yes yes saying it after analysing, thinking, and some good research.It will take a lot of time to understand this but trust me one sided doesn't hurt what hurts is the "expectation".One sided love is so pure & just beyond anything.
Pyaar me aap kuch bhi kar ke samne vale person ko khush dekhna chahte hai in return koi expectations nhi hoti aur bhai jaise hi expectations aayi vaha conflict hoga hi,( nasamjhi me aaj kal ke log jise pyaar kah de rahe that is just an attraction or attachment asal pyaar ko samjhne ke liye itni samajh chahiye jiski koi had na ho & ye line Sandeep Maheshwari ki h not mine)
वास्तविक प्रेम को समझने के लिए सम्पूर्ण जीवनकाल भी कम होता है। प्रेम आपको हमेशा सरल बनाता है अगर आप प्रेम को सच्चे रूप से समझते हैं।
And yes true love exists. प्रेम के लिए अगर आप हर रोज दरवाज़े पे खड़े होकर इंतेज़ार करेंगे तो वो आपको कभी नहीं मिलेगा मगर जब आप गहरी नींद में सो रहे होंगे तब प्रेम स्वयं भीतर आयेगा और आपके माथे को चूमकर सिर्फ आपको चैन से सोता हुआ देख खुश हो जायेगा।
One sided love hurts only when you expect love in return from that person.And I am not denying this thing here that when you do so much for someone you love & you expect a little care & love from their side too, when you don't recieve that it starts hurting and you start believing love is painful.That is why I am writing this if you love someone why to look at this aspect that you are not getting love from their side apart from this think that you are able to love a person truly how lovely is that.Sometimes people only love the idea of being in love with someone and don't actually love the person.
जब मैं और तुम भूलाकर सिर्फ "हम" का ख्याल आए तो ये है प्यार! जब अपने प्रेम के चेहरे पे मुस्कान देख आप मुस्कुरा दे तो ये है प्यार! Ok I'll not turn this poetic and thank you for reading❤
अगर आप किसी से सच्चा प्रेम करते हैं तो जरूरी नहीं की आप उनका हाथ थामेंगे तभी वो प्रेम सार्थक है,कभी-कभी बिना हाथ थामे भी हम उन्हें महसूस कर सकते हैं। प्रेम तब पूर्ण नहीं होता जब किसी दो लोगों का मिलन हो प्रेम तो तब से पूर्ण होता जबसे आप प्रेम में है।
Hope it will help you even if a little bit it will mean so much to me. If you've anything to give as a suggestion or something you want next time do tell me. Tell me honestly your review and tag few people.
And surely your love will find you one day.Be patient.❤