Problems....a term we all are aware of and nobody likes to have it in their lives.
So what are problems ? A problem is something which bothers us a lot, it may be physical, mental, financial or emotional.
Life can never be smooth and full of sweetness, a little roughness and bitterness is also a part of the journey of life.
If lives were free of all problems, the very essence of it would have been lost somewhere.
On one hand where problems bother us, on the other hand the same problems teach us to deal with unexpected situations which directly gives us the power and knowledge to fight even the toughest of situations.
Instead of holding onto your problems and frustrating yourself either fix it if you can and if it is not fixable then "learn to LET GO."
Life should never be made complicated, keep it as simple as possible and try to stay happy. ✨
Love...an emotion we all are aware of, not everyone must have experienced it but many of us must have.
Love is a very pure emotion which is know being made impure and corrupted by many people.
I related love here to a bird as like a bird feels light and can fly high in the sky, similarly a person in love feels light, happy and free to fly and see the beauty of love.
Now what is important in love is - "trust". As a bird cannot fly with a broken wing in the same manner the bird of love cannot fly without it's "wings of trust".
If trust is once broken in a relationship, the things can never be the same, suppose a wing of a bird is broken it will take time to heal and for the bird to take flight like it did before it was broken.
Love is pure and fragile, this shall always be kept in mind. Never let the wings of your bird break cause if a wing is once broken the bird will definitely suffer. ✨
Life is something which we all should feel blessed to have.
Not everyone has the same kind of things and situations in their lives.
Every person is different and so is their life. We usually start comparing ourselves and our life with that of others and that's where we go wrong.
We may like what someone else has cause "the grass always looks greener on the other side" but we can only see what others have, we cannot experience it, what may feel to be something wonderful and exciting to us, the same thing may not be giving happiness to the person it belongs to.
Instead of comparing, be happy in what you have and start appreciating it. Always remember to be thankful and to feel blessed for all that you have cause there are many people who don't even have the basic needs of life.
When you set some aim for yourself, then always remember to also put in some efforts into it.
No aim can ever be achieved without working for it.
If you just have an aim and you are not willing to give your 100% into it and are not working towards achieving it then that aim will be of no value at all.
An aim is a target that we set and the distance between the target and the process of achieving it can only be completed if you put in that much efforts.
If you simply have an aim and are sitting doing nothing towards achieving it, then in the end you are going to sit with empty hands cause all this time you didn't value your aim by just wasting your time.
So always remember that your aim should be high and the efforts that you put in should be higher so that you succeed. ✨
We all have some goals set for our future which we want to achieve at some point or the other.
Apart from hardwork, dedication, motivation consistency and persistence we also need one other thing - "passion."
Passion is something which turns even the impossible things to possible.
Always remember to have passion for your goals, life and for all the things that you love.
"Everyone can rise above their circumstances and achieve success if they are dedicated to and passionate about what they do." - Nelson Mandela
A person who wants to achieve success in life should first know to be passionate about it, when a thing is done with passion it becomes even more stronger, chances of passing and acing increase when hard work and passion go hand in hand.
So keep in mind to do everything with passion and success will follow. ✨
Here I'm with part 3 of "SMS". I'm eagerly waiting for your comments For all parts : #sms_daffz
For this reason, to save money he didn't return to his village for the past five years. Now, again, it is a never fulfilling dream until he gets a promotion in his company. His salary will be raised and he is quite confident that the project he has submitted this day after so much of tiring efforts are all worth getting a selection.
He also had some good friends in his workplace. Anika, Rahul and Deepak. The only discomfort he had with them was, they were all from well equipped families because of which he found it a little difficult to talk about his burdens and sorrows to them. They didn't know what it seems like to have burden in life.
He was drowning in all these thoughts and it was 12 midnight. He had to reach the office on the other day so he closed his windows and made his bed to sleep. He couldn't sleep but he had to.
The next day as Mithun reached his office, Anika came aside him. Her smile was fascinating and irradiated positive energy. She was the only of his friends who has sincerely tried to know him and support him. Anika asked, "Why do you look exhausted this morning itself?" "Why do you ask that?" Mithun doubted. "I can read it from your face. By the way, when have you planned to meet your parents? To return to your village?" "I don't know. I haven't planned yet." "Then you should probably stop worrying about 'when?' One day it will happen. Alright?" "Alright." He smiled, nodded his head. Rahul abruptly came from nowhere and interfered, "Hey you both! What's it Mithun? Parents again?" He looked piercingly and asked. He turned to Anika, "Come on! I've told you. He won't change. Like little children, crying to see his parents." Mithun felt embarassed. He could bear it anytime but not infront of Anika. Anika felt angry, "Stop it Rahul !!!" "Oh! I was just making it funny. Sorry Mithun ! I wanted you to smile. And I know I'm rude often, but I'm always sorry for it too." "Hey Hey !!! That's fine my friend." Mithun remarked. "Yeah !!! And Anika I've got something special for you." Stated Rahul and he took Anika to his cabin for giving his gift for her.
So here I am with part 2 of my story "SMS" ⊂((・▽・))⊃
If you haven't read part one, then go to the hashtag I have given.(☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞ #sms_daffz for all parts
Its been five years since Mithun came from his remote village Sarovpur. He has been invariably dreaming of returning to his village but he could never because he wasn't yet earning enough to save money to book a ticket atleast at the cheapest rate to return. His family had a financially poor background and his father didn't have sufficient income to take care of the family on his own. No wonder it happens in a world, where people don't have the time to even think for a moment of how difficult the life of a hard-working farmer is !
His mother also had been taking efforts to take care of the family. Her hands know stories of tiring works it did, behind the kitchens of so many households. She washes clothes, cleans utensils, sweeps floor and does so many works in so many houses to earn some money that would suffice.
Mithun also has a younger brother and sister. His parents have worked day and night to educate him and his brother. His younger brother, Hrithun is in college and he is also trying his part well to take care of his family. His sister Meera had to stop going to school at the age of 12. She is only three years younger than Mithun. In his village, girls are married between the age of 18 and 21, but sister's has not yet been arranged. She is 24 now and dowry is quite a huge burden. Now that he has started earning some money, he do wish to arrange things better, but unfortunately his monthly income is not sufficient to meet all the requirements; his father's loan, debts etc.
For this reason, to save money he didn't return to his village for the past five years. Now again, it is a never fulfilling dream until or unless he gets.......
(To be continued.....)
Two most relevant social issues I have pointed out in this part includes:-
(1) Never ending misery of farmers. Inspite of their hardworks, Mithun's family is unable to meet all their needs. This is something to be looked forward into atleast in near future. This should be analysed and worked upon to improve the condition of our farmers whilst we still have nearly 70% of our population (in India) dependent on agriculture.
(2) The dowry system. Today, to avoid any further legal conplications that they might be faced with, families call it "GIFT". Gift that fathers or mothers give their daughters while they get married. That is again not good, because do remember, dowry system began from there and it can't end in there to continue as such.
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